17 Best Solo Travel Tips For First

Jul 16, 2023

I'll never go on another vacation without following these tips, downloading the apps, and saving alllll this money.

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I'm an incredibly anxious person and love having things planned ahead, so I did everything possible to make this trip go as smoothly as possible. I ultimately spent one week in Paris and then a second week in London. This was my first trip since 2019, and as a 32-year-old, it was my first trip where I'd actually be traveling alone. Here are some things I learned along the way and some I wish I knew sooner.

I actually stole this tip from the queen of solo travel herself, Travel Channel host Samantha Brown. It'll stick with me for years.

Another great tip I learned from the Travel Channel is to never actually mention that you're solo traveling while on your trip. Most conversations you have will be totally harmless, but as an extra safety precaution, I always mention that I'm traveling with friends and meeting them later in the day. That way the person I'm talking to knows that someone is expecting me. (Hey, I'm not trying to get taken!)

Getting lost in a foreign city can be an especially overwhelming situation, but I saved myself so many times by pre-saving maps of Paris and London's subway systems onto my phone. This way I knew exactly where to go, which stations I should transfer from, and what area of the cities I was actually in.

There are some cities, states, and countries that I simply won't travel to as a queer person (I'm looking at you, Florida), but I love, love, love that this feature exists. Feeling safe and welcome is SO important, especially if you're alone and in an unfamiliar area, so I can't recommend booking with it enough.

I'm a Type-A person who always needs to know exactly where I'm going, but when I stepped off the metro in Paris, I got completely turned around and didn't know which direction my hotel was in (and it didn't help that everything was in a foreign language). Luckily, I had pre-saved my hotel's address into Google Maps. Even without Wi-Fi, the app uses a satellite to pinpoint exactly where you and your destination are, and it shows you which direction to travel in. This made navigating through a foreign city SO easy, and it completely calmed my nerves for the rest of the trip. Highly recommend.

I used Duolingo every day for five months in order to prepare for my trip, and even though I learned a decent amount, I don't think the majority of it was super productive or helpful for a weeklong vacation. But luckily, I had the Google Translate app because I was able to translate things in real time, even without Wi-Fi, which was a huge lifesaver. It also made me feel more like a local because I didn't need to ask for a menu in English.

I studied abroad in London over 10 years ago, so while I wasn't as familiar with the city as I used to be, it was still reassuring to know that I'd been there before. I also have a brother who lives in Paris, so the idea of knowing someone while abroad really comforted me. This way we could meet for random dinners, and I could also rely on him for non-touristy recommendations.

I booked my stay through Hotels.com because I saw that they offered extra discounts (as a "member price") when you sign up for free on their site. Most rooms automatically had 10+%-off discounts after I did that, but they also offered additional discounts when booking through their app.

For context, I almost booked my London hotel with 10% off on my laptop, but when I looked on their app, they offered an addition 10% off, so I ended up saving 20% on my entire stay.

The train was more comfortable, convenient, and way cheaper than any flight would have been. Rather than wasting the entire day at the airport, I breezed through security at my Eurostar gate and got on a quick 2-hour ride that dropped me off in the center of London (literally two tube stops away from my hotel in Covent Garden!). If I had opted for a flight instead, my journey to the airport in Paris and through security would have taken more time than the train ride itself, so always look at all of your travel options.

TikTok accounts like topjaw and knivestomeetyoulondon consistently highlight must-try restaurants all across London. The first account features recommendations from chefs, locals, and celebs, while the second account is basically food porn in the best way possible. I had some incredible meals because of their suggestions, and I never would have found them had I not searched on TikTok.

But my favorite meal from the trip was actually a recommendation from Will Poulter during his Times Radio interview. He raved about the fine-dining West African restaurant Akoko in London, and holy crap, I was not disappointed. I've had dreams about their jollof rice ever since, and I'd happily bathe in several of their sauces.

Do I think these AI sites will give you perfect results? Absolutely not. But they'll definitely give you a great jumping off point and guide you along the way. For example, I asked for a bunch of lesser-known events in Paris + some free activities that'd be going on in each city. From those results, I was able to do the extra research to see what I'd actually want to see, eat, and do. It also told me about a queer art exhibit (featured above) going on during my stay, and I never would have known about it had I not asked. So, like, I guess AI can sometimes be good?

I'm always prepared with both physical and digital books, just in case, but I find myself reading on my phone more often while on vacation. I don't typically carry a bag while exploring a new city, so being able to keep myself preoccupied without having to lug something around is ideal. My phone was on airplane mode throughout my entire vacation, so having a downloaded book on my phone was a super convenient and comfortable option while out and about.

Pro tip: There are a bunch of free online libraries to get ebooks from, so just do your research. Personally, Project Gutenberg has been super clutch for me so far.

Vacations are expensive, so figuring out your main reasons for going will help you save time and money, rather than attempting to do, eat, and see everything that's available. My goal while abroad was to eat really good food, so I did a ton of research about the best restaurants for me (and asked friends, followers, and locals for their faves, too), and I built my itinerary around that. This way I basically had a map of go-to spots and could plan my days around what was close by. It also helped that I had been to London before, so I felt like I could prioritize food and great seats on the West End over paying for more touristy experiences, like a tour of Westminster or something.

It's also important to weigh your options and personal safety levels. To me, getting crammed into a tiny room with the "Mona Lisa" and 500+ other tourists was not worth it. I was one of maybe three people with a mask on, and the whole process of actually getting semi-close to the painting took about 20 minutes. There was a lot of pushing and shoving and heavy breathing by everyone around me, and the final result was a picture where I've never looked more tired and stressed out in my life. Basically, if there are some attractions you think you'd be okay with skipping, then it's probably best to trust your gut.

Like, sure, totally grab yourself a shirt with the UK flag on it if that's what you really want. But in addition to that, if you can afford it, I'd definitely suggest getting something more usable and less hokey that'll make you feel extra good when you use it.

For example, when I was in London a decade ago, I remember going into a store and seeing a reallllly nice jacket. It was more money than I preferred to spend on clothes when I was 21, so I left the store, but I couldn't stop thinking about it. A week or two later (literally the morning of my flight home), after thinking about how much I'd regret not getting it, I went into the store and bought the jacket. I still have it today, and every time I wear it, I think, "This is my London jacket," which I think is really cool.

One of my favorite nights in Paris was when I had no plan and just walked around like I lived there until I found a restaurant that looked cute. I listened for French speakers who were eating outside because that let me know the restaurant was good enough for the people who actually live in the city.

But if you're pressed for time and don't have the luxury of walking around until you find some hidden gems, just ask the people who you come across who actually live there. I'm normally super introverted, but if I can do something to make my vacation even better, then I'll probably try it. At one point, I walked into a nice-looking shop and asked the woman who worked there for her favorite restaurants nearby. She pointed me to a great spot called The Pelican (featured in the pic above) that I never would have found on my own, and I absolutely loved it.

I grew up in a dollar-menu family. Fast-food value meals were strictly off limits, anything other than tap water at a restaurant was forbidden, and I've never seen my parents order off the dessert menu in my life. A lot of that has stuck with me into adulthood. But I wanted to change that when I was on vacation. I'm there to have a good, memorable time, so I often treated myself to "bonus" things that I wouldn't normally do in my regular life. That meant picking something decadent off the dessert menu or splurging for better seats on the West End, which I went to almost every night in London.

Obviously, I'm super fortunate to be able to use this mindset on my trip. To be completely honest, I have a really weird relationship with money and often don't think I'm worthy of things, so I never spend it. But I've been trying to change that, and this mindset really put me in the moment and helped me enjoy my trip (and myself!) way more than I typically would have.

I actually stole this idea from TikTok where a guy talked about having the chance to fly and stay in Dublin for St. Patrick's Day for $600 when he was 23. He ultimately decided against it because it seemed like a lot of money at the time (which is absolutely valid!), but looking back now, he'd redo it in a heartbeat. His reasoning is that he'll never have those experiences or memories of being 23 and in Dublin, and life is short, so he shouldn't wait his entire life to save up and have those experiences at a later date. Instead, he'd rather find a way to make those experiences happen now, especially since "later" isn't always guaranteed.

Vacationing is all about new experiences. It's the perfect time to find out what you like (or don't like), and one way to do that is by taking advantage of the fact that you will never see any of these people again in your life.

Also, real talk, you're bound to get kinda lonely on a solo vacation. And I'm not just talking about physical loneliness. It's a very daunting experience to be alone with yourself for that long. There were a few days when I thought to myself, "What the hell am I supposed to do now?!" But the beauty of solo travel is that you can literally do whatever you want. So if you're feeling overwhelmed and want to relax with a personal "hotel room day," do that; if you want to spend five hours in a museum you've never been to, have at it; or you want to download some dating or hookup apps to get out of your comfort zone a little, go have some fun. (To be completely honest, this is also a great way to meet some locals and fellow travelers and ask for their best recommendations in the city.) Just be smart, safe, and respectful.